I'd be interested to know to what extent young men to whom having a family is important include, even if only subconsciously and without explicit articulation, unfair and unfavorable divorce laws, practices and outcomes for fathers post-divorce as among the troublesome societal and female expectations they report as reasons they find committed relationships to be not in their interest.
That was why I ultimately didn't, but I'm far from young at this point (mid-40s). I also accumulated a reasonable nest egg so I may not be typical--usually wealthier men are *more* likely to marry.
I get what you’re saying, but don’t forget that feminism is a reaction to very real and statistically significant garbage behavior from a large swath of men. It’s a vicious cycle and we started it.
Yep. We induced tit-for-tat petty violence. Recently read a bit from a Victorian railroad brochure advising women to carry protection on passenger cars because assaults were common when passengers trains went through tunnels. Speaking of tunnels, your vision…
I'd be interested to know to what extent young men to whom having a family is important include, even if only subconsciously and without explicit articulation, unfair and unfavorable divorce laws, practices and outcomes for fathers post-divorce as among the troublesome societal and female expectations they report as reasons they find committed relationships to be not in their interest.
That was why I ultimately didn't, but I'm far from young at this point (mid-40s). I also accumulated a reasonable nest egg so I may not be typical--usually wealthier men are *more* likely to marry.
The math doesn’t add up for many men. But I think you’ve ignored one of the biggest reasons why:
https://open.substack.com/pub/rust2418/p/on-americas-relationship-recession?r=7g7lz4&utm_medium=ios
https://thelastchord.substack.com/p/what-is-love
I get what you’re saying, but don’t forget that feminism is a reaction to very real and statistically significant garbage behavior from a large swath of men. It’s a vicious cycle and we started it.
Yep. We induced tit-for-tat petty violence. Recently read a bit from a Victorian railroad brochure advising women to carry protection on passenger cars because assaults were common when passengers trains went through tunnels. Speaking of tunnels, your vision…
mhmm